I just want to pop in here and say, try putting yourself in her shoes. Depending on where you live rejecting someone as a woman can be damn near dangerous.
Maybe you don’t think you’d react negatively to it, and maybe you won’t. Congrats on being someone decent. But a woman has to go through this every time and sometimes it’s fucking scary.
So maybe they’re scarred by having had one too many rejections gone bad. Or maybe there was just one really bad one.
I get that you’re angry and hurt and pissed. But in these cases it’s almost never the person getting ghosted who didn’t deserve closure, it’s the person doing the ghosting that wants to avoid the confrontation.
As for you? Ghosting is rejection. One way or another. We deal with it, we get angry, we vent, and we move on. We should never take it out on someone else by the way.
Always put yourself in someone else’s shoes when you can’t understand their actions.
PS I speak from personal experience, your mileage might vary.
I just want to pop in here and say, try putting yourself in her shoes. Depending on where you live rejecting someone as a woman can be damn near dangerous. Maybe you don’t think you’d react negatively to it, and maybe you won’t. Congrats on being someone decent. But a woman has to go through this every time and sometimes it’s fucking scary. So maybe they’re scarred by having had one too many rejections gone bad. Or maybe there was just one really bad one. I get that you’re angry and hurt and pissed. But in these cases it’s almost never the person getting ghosted who didn’t deserve closure, it’s the person doing the ghosting that wants to avoid the confrontation. As for you? Ghosting is rejection. One way or another. We deal with it, we get angry, we vent, and we move on. We should never take it out on someone else by the way.
Always put yourself in someone else’s shoes when you can’t understand their actions.
PS I speak from personal experience, your mileage might vary.