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  • You’re not going to get “improvements” in Windows, that should be clear by now. Crystal clear, I would think.

    Linux IS good, and today, the “paradigm shift” is more like a gentle learning curve with people holding your hand every step.

    I’m an old geezer who made the jump a year ago, it really isn’t hard. Literally, the only thing I miss is the big preview window in the file manager. Big previews for all of the major formats is a big plus for Windows, but not one that kept me on their side.




  • TrackinDaKraken@lemmy.worldtomemes@lemmy.worldTrue
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    2 days ago

    I’m living alone again for the first time since I was 22. I brought back my old ways. I use the same dishes every day, and wash as I go. One fork, one knife, one spoon, a plate, a bowl, a glass, etc. They sit rinsed-off in the sink till I need them, then I quickly wash what I need, and use it, and put it back in the sink.

    Much better than filling a dishwasher every few days, then having to run it and put the dishes away.




  • TrackinDaKraken@lemmy.worldtoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    8 days ago

    My last GF had sex with other men. I knew it. I didn’t care. Same as you, when we were together, it was just us. I knew she was careful with who she chose. I didn’t want to hear the details, but I was fine when she mentioned it off-handedly after the fact. It was no more concerning than if she’d told me she’d been to the dentist, or went shopping for a new coffee maker. What she did when I wasn’t around was irrelevant to “us”.

    When I was a teen, with my first GF, it was too easy to become jealous.

    Over time, and with more experience, I got over myself more after each relationship. By the time I was married, and in the end she had cheated on me, I was sad about losing her and what I thought our life was going to be, but the actual sex with another man didn’t bother me. Then, with my last GF, all that mattered was the time when we were together. What she did in her “free time” was her thing. I didn’t need to control her, I didn’t even want to control her in any way. Love is choosing to be with someone, love isn’t choosing NOT to be with someone else. The sooner people figure that out, the easier life is.