that would be the worst, then again if you can get this many girls in the same bed as you would they leave you over this ?

let’s unpack this

give them supprort for being trans,gay and queer

I am not a drug user anymore

Second I am a great girlfriend and I would argue better then the majority of girlfriends.

How is anything I have said wrong ?

what did I say in that post ? I have never deleted a post it was liekly taken down by mods I migth still have it on my profile or remmeber more about it so describe the post ad I will clear up any misunderstanding

agian if they cared so much about him where were they before ?

right but the norm is already changing on so many other issues why is this an exception ?

Now it’s the norm for women to work, couples to not have kids, women to not change their last names.

We are not in a traditional relationship. I do onlyfans for one, I pay him a portion of that to live in his house that he owns. Traditionally a dwelling like this would be co owned by both people int he relationship or at least he would let his woman stay there for free but I am consistent and I know it’s not fair for me to demand tradition compliance out of him but be progressive personally because it benefits him

the issue with that norm is it contradits anohter norm

that most cheaters are never given a second chance, so most cheating victims don’t know if once a cheater always a cheater is true they never find out

I expect that IDC what scrotes think

being good faith doesn’t mean you are a good debater.

Christopher Hitchens often argued for stuff he didn’t know or care much about but he did an amazing job at it.

Meanwhile a 62 IQ Florida man who thinks the earth is flat might be the most good faith pure of heart debater who beehives that in his heart of heart that the earth is flat. He will be a terrible debater.

What about people who debate issues they don’t agree with and steel man them ? good things have come from this because it causes new people to look at stuff and bring an outside view to things and point out something the activist on either side of a debate haven’t noticed.

It discredits their view points. When you debate you are almost never going to convince the other person the goal is to convince the audience or people who haven’t made up their minds.

That is what I think the left has failed at and it kept me as a baby leftist for a while because I would as a question and they would accuse me of being an alt right troll.

I love debating. I especially love debating right wingers because it’s fun and makes the world better. One thing they are better about one of the few things is answering questions ,if you have questions they have answers. I would make fun of them and ask dumb hypothetical and they would still answer

How is that post wrong ?

How is anything I have said wrong.

Thanks I agree and this is a valuable perspective

So funny thing is republicans say the same thing. There is a famous quote ““Conservatism is progressivism driving the speed limit.””

I would argue the left needs to take some responsibility with getting distracted in the culture war and losing site of the working class. Look at Bernie you can go back to 2016 and see people saying that bernie was a bro candidate and not progressive enough compared to hillarly on insert x wedge issue here

I agree that we need to be more technocratic as I think democracy is kind of running it’s course in the world. Maga also has a lot of contradictions to be fair

I like this actually

do you have an actual answer to the question ?

Also even if you disagree with that, that is how they feel and when it comes to votes weather or not how they feel is justified or not doesn’t matter