tomb RAIDER

Laughs in paper clip

Are you me?

Depends on where you live and the lawyer. It costs me a few hundred euros a year, and whenever I have a question or need something legalese, she’s just a call away.

To take care of your finances

Yes. Our dad advised us to have a lawyer and an accountant on retainer.

*grabs popcorn, waits for the Dutchies to freak out

I think it’s semantics, the first language you learned to speak, doesn’t have to be your primary language. Generally people assume your primary is also your first learned language. For myself, I learned multiple languages from birth, it’s hard to say which is my first. My primary, though is English, unless I am with either one of my parents families, then after a few days, as the other poster asked, I dream in said language. Sometimes I dream multilingual.

Tl;dr it’s the difference between the first language you learned and the language you use primarily. Most people assume it’s the same.