Goofy does porn

i was born from one of my gay dads’ assholes.

i feel like I’ve never heard anything about substack and then all of a sudden out of nowhere i was hearing about it everywhere. never used it. now that I know it has a nazi/far-right problem, staying away from it by at least 1000 miles

just lie on your resume bro

that doesn’t explain people who only drink decaf

also come from a religious background and it took me a while to grow out of the shame imposed upon me by religion when it came to porn. looking at porn is fine. my dad who was a pastor thought he also had a “porn addiction” and continues to beat himself up to this day about it. repressing your sexuality is far more unnatural imo.

it can be unhealthy to be constantly watching it to the point where your not doing anything else but that behavior is not surprising if you’ve repressed yourself for incredibly long. after you get it out of your system i find you start to have a natural relationship to porn (i.e. consuming it only sparingly)

just keep in mind real sex is not like porn and most men do not have porn sized penises lol.

and the bravery to kill the assholes

how are your parents or your life not “allowing” you to have a job?

it’s all good! i hope you can come to a good resolution on this. i am an american that wishes he lived in some european countries so i get it. lol

of course. everyone has dreams and i cannot force you to do anything. but you came into a mental health community asking for help and advice with unhealthy fixations that are causing you to be deeply depressed and you are getting offended when we give it to you.

which is fine. becoming defensive is a normal response if you are feeling attacked. no one here is attacking you. we are trying to guide you to finding the help you are looking for

i do see a therapist regularly actually. she’s very helpful

please see a therapist

i think your comment here is just a symptom of what I described earlier. you think you are different and belong in a different culture. the american weeaboos that move to Japan feel the same way and feel like they don’t belong in American culture. you may disagree and think otherwise but I’m not here to argue with you. you really just need to talk to a therapist about it. it is not healthy to get this depressed about a country, of all things, especially one you are not actually living in. please seek a professional therapist. they can help you get to the bottom of why you are feeling this way and help you form healthier interests and attachments.

it sounds like you have an unhealthy obsession with a fantasy ideal of a country that is unlikely to be real.

this is not uncommon actually. there are many Americans who have this kind of fantasy obsession with Japan for instance, pick up everything and move there and are disappointed with the negative parts of the culture and life there and get very depressed.

funnily enough there is a actual syndrome that is named after japanese people who would get physically sick after visiting Paris and it didn’t meet their fantasies about what the city is like and experiencing the quintessential Parisian rudeness towards foreigners: Paris syndrome.

i can’t give real mental health advice. you should seek the help of a therapist. just know what you are experiencing is not uncommon and is something you will want to talk about with a therapist.

how she explains it is literally how i feel. i always worry someone might be thinking I’m mansplaining when really I’m just nerding out and want to talk about interesting info with a friend

i generally assume good intentions and i hope others give me the same courtesy, even if it has sometimes burned me in the past.

wtf there is a company called “astronomer”?

out of the loop. which astronomer are we talking about? neil degrassse tyson?

cosmic horror

imagine if everyone just went back to the social media of the 2000s. i would go back to vox.com when it was a blogging platform and not a news site.

paying rent sometimes feels like throwing money into a black hole