I was feeling a lot older until I started a mental and physical health routine. Meeting up with other people that were trying their hardest to make this their best life and working on getting my physical health back in line has really changed how I feel.
Before I was feeling every ache and pain there was to feel. The world was dark and gray and I was just a rat on a wheel doing the same old thing.
Now, I’m feeling like there is hope. I’m taking more walks out in the nature preserves in our area. My wife has seen the difference in my wellbeing, and how the work has paid off for her as well. My kids are enjoying being out and having their dad back with them emotionally as well.
If you don’t do it for yourself, find someone that you can do it for. Find a group of like-minded people that aren’t 100% successful, but willing to put their flaws on the table and asking for support. We’re all doing it together, and we’re not the best at it. Keep it up, it’s worth it to finish well.
When getting into a new project or hobby, I tend to go to HF for the tools first. The tools are inexpensive, and I’m probably going to be dropping the hobby or thing soon after my hyperfixation dies off. So, that means I didn’t spend a lot of money on this thing that I’m not going to keep going on. If the tool dies, and I’m still into it, it’s not just hyperfixation and I can get a better tool, but now I understand what I’m looking for. Sometimes, the tool from HF is just fine for the long term, and honestly this happens more than you’d think. I have some drills that aren’t the best, but get things done for near a decade, and some yellow, teal, and reds that have died within 6 months.
My wife bought me a HF (Port Cable) pancake air compressor for a father’s day. It wasn’t the best, but it was from her and what she could buy without pinging the account in a way that alerted me. It’s just now starting to die off and it’s nearly 12 years old.