Yeah, that’s the point I always make. If you don’t have social groups that expose you to new people in a safe, non-sexual environment, you have to work that out first before dreaming of having a relationship. Just go play some boardgames, join a language school, take music classes, join a rec league for your favorite sport. Hell, if absolutely necessary, why not join a Discord server about stuff you’re interested in? I’ve met kind and available girls playing Valorant, even.
Even if these guys somehow manage to get a few dates going with someone they “picked up”, won’t they just run out of things to talk about if there is nothing but work and social media going on in the guy’s life?
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What happened to just having hobbies and social groups and then developing genuine relationships there, too? Why are the “male loneliness” advocates acting like picking up girls has ever been the standard for developing a relationship? Just seems like brainrot from watching too many “ripped guy in the beach picking up girls” videos at a young age…
I have had a bunch of relationships and flings in my life and only like one or two happened through “shooting my shot”, most were friends of friends, school colleagues, large Whatsapp group chats (were a big thing in Brazil for a while), etc.
theblips@lemm.eeto Funny@sh.itjust.works•You may never see the soda fountain the same again31·1 day agoAren’t those the ones made to collect data from users with a camera?
That is a good elevator pitch
A roguelike metroidvania with soulslike mechanics in the TES universe
In the mornings I’ll usually read news while enjoying a cup of coffee and a Zyn, too, forgot to mention that
Does finance count? I’m usually studying something in the alternative data space (that is, using non-financial data to make decisions on investments) so I can, in the end, make a presentation or deliver a product to someone. For example, an analyst decides to study a clothing company and asks me to scrape their prices in the main Latin American markets (because he thinks they can grow there or something). So I do that for a while and report back to him what I found. If it is interesting, I may be tasked with implementing something in our Excel add-in so he can plug that information into his own models, or I’ll need to develop a model myself.
Lots of spacing out, browsing lemmy and playing bullet chess on my phone, too
Yeah, somehow “literally” is the only word in a figure of speech that cannot be part of the figure at all! They are so smart for pointing that out
The use of “literally” is part of the figure of speech you’re pedantically referring to. Saying “figuratively” would be redundant, as everyone knows Copilot is not a nuclear reactor, and also declaring that you are using a figure of speech “weakens” it (like /s for sarcasm). By saying “literally” they are saying “wow, this fits so well that this isn’t even a metaphor anymore”.
If you want to correct everyone for saying literally instead of figuratively, correct every teenager saying “I’m actually dying rn 😂” with “ackshually you’re not ACTUALLY dying, as I can see you are still alive typing tips fedora”
theblips@lemm.eeto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What popular TV show did not do it for you and you quit watching?2·3 days agoAttack on Titan got me into Gundam. It is basically a ripoff, but the aesthetics carry it so hard I don’t even care
theblips@lemm.eeto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What popular TV show did not do it for you and you quit watching?2·3 days agoMost of that stuff is better handled in the manga. One Pace can’t fix the bad soundtrack, animation and such that plagued the series from the start. It doesn’t turn into a character drama or anything, I think the online fandom exaggerates that aspect of the series to get people to start watching… But it is better
theblips@lemm.eeto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What popular TV show did not do it for you and you quit watching?21·3 days agoGrimdark stuff is just so infantile. It’s not “realistic and gritty” to have every single character cuss a thousand times per episode and be constantly in and out of clothes
theblips@lemm.eeto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What popular TV show did not do it for you and you quit watching?5·3 days agoI’ve been called “Sheldon” for my autistic traits in a degrading manner. The show plays autism for laughs plenty of times, and also ridicules the “nerds” all the time for no reason. It’s like a bunch of self proclaimed high school “jocks” wrote it
theblips@lemm.eeto Technology@lemmy.world•Bluesky has started honoring takedown requests from Turkish governmentEnglish1·9 days agoRunning the service itself over Tor is the only way to prevent local governments knocking on the admin’s door, though
theblips@lemm.eeto Technology@lemmy.world•Bluesky has started honoring takedown requests from Turkish governmentEnglish23·9 days agoHard agree. Decentralization itself doesn’t really work against censorship, you need an additional layer of privacy, or, more ideally, anonymity. Is there a way of running a lemmy instance over Tor?
theblips@lemm.eeto Technology@lemmy.world•Jack Dorsey and Elon Musk would like to ‘delete all IP law’ | TechCrunchEnglish92·11 days agoCan’t disagree here, this would be great
Almost all of this goes for pretty much every other country, though…
Maybe a farming sim mechanic is in order, and “cozy aesthetics”